Finding Your Own North Star

Finding Your Own North Star Do you feel that your life has taken a wrong turn and you don t know how to get back on track This text provides a step by step programme to put you on course again It shows how to recognise your deep

  • Title: Finding Your Own North Star
  • Author: Martha N. Beck
  • ISBN: 9780749924010
  • Page: 355
  • Format: Paperback
  • Do you feel that your life has taken a wrong turn and you don t know how to get back on track This text provides a step by step programme to put you on course again It shows how to recognise your deepest desires, examines why they have been forgotten and gives advice on how to fulfill them.

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    About "Martha N. Beck"

    1. Martha N. Beck

      I grew up wanting to be an ecologist or a professor However, after bearing three children while acquiring three Harvard degrees, I decided I d rather just lie down for a few decades During that time I became an author and life coach My books include Expecting Adam, Leaving the Saints, Finding Your Own North Star, The Joy Diet, Steering By Starlight, Finding Your Way in Wild New World, and The Martha Beck Collection Essays for Creating Your Right Life, Volume 1 My most recent book, Diana, Herself An Allegory of Awakening, is part of a new trilogy I m calling The Bewilderment Chronicles and it will be released in the spring of 2016 I ve been a columnist for O, The Oprah Magazine since its inception in 2001.As president of my company, Martha Beck, Inc I continue to speak around the world, as well as offer virtual teleclasses and in person workshops a few times a year, primarily at my ranch on the Central Coast of California, where I live with my partner, Karen, and my son, Adam I also train life coaches worldwide with my life coach training program.When not covering myself in bird seed and sitting outside in nature, I am painting or writing book 2 of The Bewilderment Chronicles.

    447 thoughts on “Finding Your Own North Star”

    1. This book is amazing! I started reading this book because I couldn't figure out why I wasn't happier in my life. This book offers simple exercises and steps to figure out your best direction. There's nothing earth shattering in here, but the way Martha Beck has written the book makes the information very easy to digest and use. A few months after I first read this book I was hospitalized with a life-threatening condition and that, combined with the soul searching I'd done in connection with read [...]

    2. Thaaat's right! Five stars, jokers! I read this thing so dang slowly but it's because every page made me have so many THOUGHTS and also a few FEELINGS (but mostly THOUGHTS).Important points:1. This book will be most useful to you if you feel a little lost, unsatisfied, or discontented. If you're banging along, being awesome and joyful all the time, that is great. Write a book and I will read it or possibly throw it at you. But you should read this one anyway, because it will be useful when you a [...]

    3. This book saved my life. I’m only slightly exaggerating when I say that. I was deep in the grip of depression when my onii-san, David, let me borrow his copy of "Finding Your Own North Star: Claiming the Life You Were Meant to Live" by Martha Beck. I was in pain, confused, and trying desperately to claw my way out of a hole I had only recently realized I was in. I needed to make sense of what was happening to me, why I was so unhappy, and what to do about it. Listening to other people doesn’ [...]

    4. I found some of the strategies of this book helpful. I was turned onto it by a search that spiraled out of an issue of Spirituality & Health magazine about using intuition to pilot your own internal compass (or north star). This book was not the one referenced, but I got it anyway. Generally, I find everythingeverythingeverything boils down to mindfulness and meditationAnyway, Beck has some good ideas, but she is woefully privileged and blissfully unaware of her privileged stance. She writes [...]

    5. This book pleasantly surprised me. It was recommended on escapefromcubiclenation, one of the blogs I like, but I was afraid it was going to be formless and non-specific. To the contrary, Ms. Beck is highly pragmatic and the book is focused on concrete steps you can take to make real changes in your life and try to ensure they are the right changes for you.Also, Martha blew me away with her intelligence and wit on every page.I have to deduct one star because I get the feeling that for this method [...]

    6. I have this book 2 stars because I started out liking it, and I did make it 240 pages in. It was after the chapter on trusting your intuition that I stopped- I'm all for learning to trust my gut, but a bunch of how-tos on how to get in touch with my psychic side evidentially wasn't what I was in the mood for.I really want to find my passion in life. But I don't think I'm going to search and search and then realize "oh, duh, I've been woodworking all along- THAT'S my passion that I should turn in [...]

    7. Sociologist and life coach Martha Beck, PhD, presents some fascinating information on finding out your life purpose.Beck's premise is that our "social self," the face we present to the world, that does the things Everybody (some generalized other) tells us to do in order to succeed, takes us too far away from our "essential self," the one that knows what things really make us shine from within.Recognizing that self-improvement is hard work, and can bring up some painful issues, Beck talks about [...]

    8. Such a mixed bag. There is a lot of good info in here, mixed with some things about ESP and psychic abilities that don't seem to have anything to do with the rest of the book. I was annoyed by the author's privilege, assuming that everyone has a quiet, calm place where they can be alone for at least an hour a day to do these exercises.So, if there was so much I didn't like, why three stars? The sections that start with the change cycle are valuable. Really, really good information with practical [...]

    9. I am starting to learn more about my essential self (it's slowly coming out from my social self!)This is a GREAT book! I really like her approach in discovering yourself. You have two selves: the essential self (who you really are inside) and the social self (who society expect you to be). As we grow older our social self becomes so dominant, that we need to do a lot of "surgery" to find our essential self. I liked the last third of the book, where she discusses the change cycle. Change follows [...]

    10. The looks so much like the kind of self-help book that you are going to hate yourself for reading. The kind you will hide away so that nobody sees you with it. And the title simply doesn't help with that impression.Yeah, well, get over it. Read the book, do the exercises (as in actually do them, don't just 'sort of' do them), seriously, do the exercises! You may well get annoyed with the book, and/or yourself, more than once whilst working you way through the book (I did). Yet overall, I did end [...]

    11. Beck is one of those self help authors that isn't so ridiculous. This was a good book but I'm at the point with these self help people that I wonder how anyone takes them seriously. If you work for yourself and your job is to be a career coach, I don't think you have much in common with the people you are coaching. At least Beck seems to have held a real job for a while, which is more than I can say for most people doing what she does.

    12. This book is inspiring, funny, and overall has been wonderful for me. Great for those that are somewhat restless or unhappy with their current path and wondering about their life's direction.

    13. well, i've finished reading this book but i feel like i'll never be finished using it. gonna have to buy a real copy (i read most things on an e-reader) so i can scribble all through the margins & underline & highlight & annotate this is one i think i will end up buying several copies of so i can give them to friends. (hear that, friends?) <3 martha--her books and articles have made my life better many times before. and this one i "happened" to pick up right when i needed it.

    14. I bought this book a few years ago and scanned it at the time. For some reason I knew then wasn't the right time. Someone mentioned it so I picked it up again.[return][return]Here are some of my favorite passages:[return][return]when you relax the thinking mind, the rule-bound, anxiety-ridden social self, you are not simply stopping everything. Taoists believe that there is an immense benevolent force flowing through all reality, and that each of us at least our essences are part of that force. [...]

    15. As a big fan of Martha Beck, I was considering completing her life coach training certification. This is the first book of recommended reading when preparing for the course. It's a good thing I read the book because I have now talked myself out of going forward with the (expensive) training. It took me almost a year to get through this book, if that is any indication of a review! I love Beck's short articles in Oprah magazine and appreciate her wit, intelligence, and clever, entertaining writing [...]

    16. So much of my work, as a teacher, is helping people to locate that drive inside of them that will lead them to their dreams. Sometimes people know for sure they want to work with children, and other times it's a more mysterious process of exploration. I'm glad to recommend this book for those times when there's a sense that more is possible but uncertainty about what, exactly, that possibility might mean. This is also a good book to revisit for those youth services librarians who have been worki [...]

    17. Here's the thinge book is not bad. However, the book is really long and she constantly talks about her own life and brags about various accomplishments she has made. She comes from an academic background and does not once address how those of lower economic status are supposed to just up and leave their jobs and follow their passions while their kids starve, their cars are repossessed, and the bank changes the locks on their doors. She also spends numerous pages praising the wise Lord Oprah for [...]

    18. Pretty insightful self-diagnosis book, full of useful if not slightly basic exercises designed to get one thinking about personal hang-ups (for lack of a more precise term). It's all about what's holding you back, or more accurately, why you're holding yourself back. I'd give it 4 stars, but I had a hard time focusing on myself for 400+ pages, so I graded it 3 stars.

    19. Every time I pick up a book of hers and I am excited to read, one word always comes to mind: histrionic.Since I want to be fair, I get online and look up the word again. Here is what Martha Beck never fails to come across:his·tri·on·icˌhistrēˈänik/Submitadjective1.overly theatrical or melodramatic in character or style."a histrionic outburst"synonyms: melodramatic, theatrical, dramatic, exaggerated, stagy, actorly, showy, affected, artificial, overacted, overdone; Morenounplural noun: his [...]

    20. I really like self-help books in general, and I have gleaned at least a small amount of wisdom and useful advice from every one I have read. I think Martha Beck’s Finding Your Own North Star: Claiming the Life Your were Meant to Live merits all five stars I am giving it because of its straightforward, honest, and usable advice and its sheer readability. I always enjoy Martha Beck—her books and her monthly column in O magazine. Beck is wise, funny and has a no-holds-barred writing style that [...]

    21. I'm not finished with "Finding Your Own North Star" yet, but I hadn't intended to even start on it before I finished some other reading, anyway! Picking it up, I skimmed a little and found myself completely engrossed. I've read some of Beck's O and Oprah columns and found them interesting, but this book is far better than I'd imagined it would be. If you're interested in this subject, go get yourself a copy. Really! For one thing, Beck is specific and practical about life changes--these aren't a [...]

    22. Yes, five stars. I SO wish I had this book in my hands when it was new, and not the dozen or more years later. It really takes you through all the stages a normal (and even abnormal) human being must go through to deal with all the crap and the obstacles that they own, whether thrust upon them or embraced and adopted like neurotic little pets. Having been through many of the stages - prolonged, in my case, for many - and learning by rote, hearsay, and osmosis the wisdom/testimony cobbled from my [...]

    23. I started reading this book right after getting my acceptance letter into an MSW graduate program that involves 18 months of intensive study along with an internship, followed by 3200 hours of supervised work before even getting a license. (Oh, and I'm 62 and no longer need to work!) I picked the book up as part of a final quest to see if I actually, really, truly wanted to do it. I guess it's a tribute to either the book or my own insanity that I have in fact decided to do it, and moreover I fe [...]

    24. When I saw that my library had three of Martha Beck's books something in my gut told me to reserve all three and then read them in order. Since that's an odd impulse, I decided I'd merely give it a try, instead of making it a hard goal.I have no idea why I had this impulse in the first place, other than that I like what Martha Beck says on social media and that she's not only a life coach, but Oprah's life coach. And yes, I find this more impressive than her multiple degrees from Harvard.Since t [...]

    25. I was right in my decision to purchase this title. I knew if I used the library's copy, I would not do the exercises. And with this book there is no point in reading it without using the tests. The point of this is to work through the ideas for yourself.Several years ago, I read Beck's book Expecting Adam. I found Beck to be a fascinating woman - too type A for me, but really articulate.This book is very different from her memoir, but Beck's personality shines through this book. She is very posi [...]

    26. Finding Your Own North Star, by Martha Beck has also been on my book shelf for a few years now. An insightful book with some thought-provoking exercises, designed to help you to explore your inner thoughts for true happiness. The goal of this book seems to be to help the reader to recognize their internal desires, and to leave behind boredom and discontent, heal old emotional wounds and to gain a whole new appreciation and zest for life, i.e.: "Finding Your Own North Star, and Leading the Life [...]

    27. Fantastic book. Read it maybe back in '03. I was quite lost and a bit paralyzed emotionally. Shook me out of the rut I was in and got me breathing and living again. She has lots of great client examples/stories, exercises, and questionnaires. But what I enjoyed most - what kept me reading and opening up - was her warmth and wit. She's so dead on. It feels like she knows you.

    28. Han pasado muchas cosas desde el momento en el que empecé a leer este libro, que encontré buscando una manera de encontrar un camino. me ha acompañado durante este tiempo de increíbles cambios y ha sido una de las mejores cosas que he leído en "autoayuda". Lo recomiendo a todo aquel que se sienta perdido.

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